Reality is an Eye Opener

Over the years, I have had many wake up calls to where I understood that I might have problems but I never really dealt with it until recently when I realized that I was doing nothing but hurting the people around me. To admit that I have a problem with alcohol was probably the hardest thing I will ever have to admit in my life. I kept thinking to myself, what more could I possibly have to deal with? It is hard enough to deal with the deformities that I have and how society perceives me. It didn't help that I deceived a lot of people in my path of destruction. I lost a pretty solid job and a lot of ties that went with that job. Lesson learned and they tell you that everything happens for a reason, right? I wouldn't know. All I know is that today, I go day by day, sometimes I am stronger than the day before yesterday. 

The first step I am here to share is when you have a problem, be open and honest about it. You will get a lot further by following this. 

Coming back and doing things correctly

Hi everyone,
As you all know my name originally started out as Starlita Patrice Similien but over the years, I decided that I would like it to be something a little easier to understand and comprehend. In my general experience.. Having a speech impediment and getting excited easily can really suck when the S's don't come out coherently.

Why I am writing this blog out is to acknowledge that I have not always been the best but that doesn't mean I need to rot away and disappear. It just meant that I need to really start being a good person, do things the right way and help others be the best they can be and not do things the way I have.


I am very much a personable person and people instantly like me because of my easy going demeanor and the fact that I can be the life of the party. I enjoy meeting others and I enjoy understanding the many aspects.

I am going to make a positive difference and you can listen to whomever you want to listen to. I know that I am a good person who just tangled in the wrong stuff and now that I take responsibility and am okay with the consequences as they come a long. I am prepared.

I will post most comments but I will not tolerate hate comments, making fun of who I am or anything that has to do with my physical deformities. That is not the issue at hand here so please refrain yourself.

I am all about personal responsibility right now, and as long as I am in business. You will hear things and I am a pretty open book, if you feel I am not up to par or I am doing something that is not right. Please feel free to email me at similiens@gmail.com and I'll be sure to answer or talk to you about anything.

Thank you & God Bless